💭 About Growth and Responsibility
There is this word, “Fanabeazana” in my mother tongue that people often translate as “education.”
It is often misused and confused with other words like schooling or teaching. But if we translate its original definition it carries a very deep and heavy meaning. It means: Raising the child to give him/her good character so that he/she will grow up to be a better person.
The concept of education is also misinterpreted nowadays. Many people confuse education with schooling. They think education is just about attending lessons, gaining skills, or passing exams. Sometimes it’s reduced to simply following training programs. Teaching is often seen as “I talk, you listen.” But education is not just that.
Real education is about sharing life experience and insight. It is supposed to help a person grow in a way that makes taking responsibility feel natural. This should be the job of parents first and foremost, but often this important task is overlooked.
Today, we see many adults with little mental or personal growth. Social media shows how common it is to be “uneducated” in a deeper sense. Sadly, being uneducated now seems almost normal. Many people choose money over growth and maturity. Sometimes, people are even paid to behave immaturely which is very sad.
People still go to church, which shows they believe in something greater than what can be seen or touched. Yet, despite that belief, the world is filled with too many grown-ups who lacks true maturity.
It is frightening to think of a future where children grow up without learning responsibility. But today, that seems to be happening. Society is producing people who are often naive and immature. Many believe the comforts and systems around them just appeared out of nowhere, without effort.
People often forget that responsibility is not just a burden or obligation but is deeply connected to a person’s overall wellbeing. When individuals embrace responsibility, it brings a sense of purpose, self-respect, and empowerment —a cure to depression, a problem that, unfortunately, is becoming more and more common nowadays.
Rather than being merely a duty, responsibility is a vital part of living a meaningful and fulfilling life.